That is until he decided to tell me that he liked to have sex. I mean, it was really weird and really random. One minute we are talking movies and the next he's all "I like sex." I kind of let it slide hoping that if I didn't really respond to it that we would go back to the getting to know each other stuff.
Entries in online dating messages (15)
Before I left for vacation a somewhat cute younger guy sent me a message on OkCupid. I sent (what I believe was) a very cute and flirty message back to him on the same day he messaged me. And I still haven’t received a response from him. I am not really waiting for one since I kind of gave up after a few days. That could be lame on my part but hey I am not really one to sit around waiting for guys in general. Especially when it becomes obvious they aren’t interested in putting in any time or effort.
This one actually didn’t start out that bad. It was just your typical “hey you’re cute, how’s it going” variety of message. When I noticed the guy was from a different state I asked why he was messaging women in Chicago.
The guy started talking about how he’s made many mistakes with women and how he doesn’t know how to talk to them. He’s asked around but no one will help him. And all he really wants is to find a girlfriend. Literally he wrote like two paragraphs about that very subject.
So anyway, I feel rejected. And, I really hate that I feel that way and I hate even more that I am admitting it out loud because honestly the whole thing seems really silly to me. After all, can you really even call it rejection if you didn't actually hit on the guy in the first place?
Just because I don't want to sext doesn't mean I'm a prude
Thursday, July 1, 2010 At 2:00PM
The only thing it really means is that I don't want to sext with you. And calling me a prude is not going to get you any closer to getting what you want, it's really just going to... Read More
I don't want a guy who needs to be fixed
Monday, October 4, 2010 At 4:22PM
When I was in college I used to date all the bad boys. I mean, half the guys I dated didn't even have a driver's license and it was usually from a DUI. I also dated more than my share of guys that were addicted to something. It was usually pain pills. I actually dated a guy who stole my parents credit card. Yeah, that was awesome. Then, of course, there was...Read More